I Was A Mom At 15, A Dropout At 16, Widow At 52, R@ped At 65 — 81yr Old Legendary Actress Ajai-Lycett SpillsI Was A Mom At 15, A Dropout At 16, Widow At 52, R@ped At 65 — 81yr Old Legendary Actress Ajai-Lycett Spills

Taiwo Ajai-Lycett, a 79-year-old actress, journalist, and television presenter, has told how she became a mother at the age of 15, dropped out at the age of 16, became a widow at the age of 52, and was raped horribly at the age of 65.

In a recent interview with TheNation, she shared this heartbreaking disclosure. She described how she was robbed, brutalized, and raped in her own home in Egbe, Nigeria.
“I’ve been through the fire, and I’ve come out fortified,” she says. I had my first child when I was 15 years old. By the age of 16, I was living on my own. I felt confident that I would receive a decent education. I intended to be a lawyer.

I met Thomas Lycett long after I divorced my first husband. Eventually I married him. We had a blissful marriage. He died when I was 52-years-old. I remember him everyday.

He was the one that told me that I was better off being an actor. In 2006, I was robbed and raped in my house in Egbe. I was tied. I was beaten. I was brutalized. My health was ruined. .

I was blindfolded and raped. The man who raped me complained that he couldn’t gain easy entry into me because I wasn’t wet. I told him ‘widows don’t get wet.’ .

I kept talking to them and asked them repeatedly, ‘Are you doing this to your mother?’ Angrily, they taped my mouth but I remained fearless and prayed all through the attack. .

The police came. They expected me to pursue the case. I knew the masterminds. I could have gotten them incarcerated but I simply moved on. .

Look at me today, I am over it. See, the mind is a beautiful thing. When you hold on to past hurt, you tie yourself down to grief. You get infected with its poison. .

Rather than wallow in grief and self-pity, I picked myself up and sought medical help, ensuring that they hadn’t infected me with any STD.. That same year, the Obasanjo government got me the Officer of the Order of the Niger (OON) national honour.

Few years later, One of them came to prostrate before me, pleading for my forgiveness. I told him to seek forgiveness from God. I told him that I had moved on.”

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